You’ve been caught. Now what?

You're here because you’ve been caught in the act of soliciting sex with a minor. What you were doing was wrong—full stop. But you're also here because part of you knows you need to change. That recognition is the first step.

Sexual offenses involving minors devastate lives—both the victims' and your own. But if you're willing to do the difficult work, transformation is possible. Thousands of men just like you have successfully completed treatment programs and gone on to live lives of purpose, freedom, and wholeness.

Their story could be yours. It all starts with reaching out for help.

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“The day I was arrested was, by far, the most horrible of my life. But that's where the healing began.”

Watch Dave’s powerful testimony of reckoning, healing, and transformation.

On this website, you’ll find resources to help you understand the compulsions that drive the desire to buy sex, along with powerful testimonials from those who have been in your shoes—and found healing. No matter where you live, we can connect you with local therapists, groups, and programs to help you take the first steps toward recovery today.

We believe in the power of healing and hope that comes from understanding and breaking free from sexual compulsion and addiction. We’ve witnessed this transformation firsthand and are here to support you on your path to freedom.

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Our network of licensed therapists and treatment programs specializes in:

  • Evidence-based interventions for problematic sexual behaviors

  • Addressing underlying trauma and mental health challenges

  • Building healthy relationship and coping skills

  • Prevention planning and accountability

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Resource Center

Understanding Addiction and Its Impact on the Brain

Learn more about how addiction hijacks the brain's reward system, and why understanding these patterns is your first step toward breaking free.

Diagnosing Sexual Addiction or Unwanted Sexual Behavior

Learn how mental health professionals evaluate and diagnose compulsive sexual behaviors to create an effective path forward for treatment and recovery.

Is Pornography Really That Bad?

Learn how early and frequent exposure to pornography can alter brain chemistry and escalate into increasingly problematic sexual behaviors—and what you can do to break free.

Is Change Even Possible for Someone Like Me?

Discover how thousands of people have successfully overcome unwanted sexual behaviors through proven treatment approaches, support systems, and a commitment to lasting change.

Next Steps Toward Healing

Learn about the concrete steps you can take today—from finding qualified therapists to joining support groups—that will guide you on your journey toward recovery and healing.